Wednesday 15 August 2012

How to be a happy woman

In fact, happiness is always around you, some people may ask, how do I find?It is because of you may be too happy, often in the honeypot, make your happiness dull sense.Happiness is to ask you discover, you don't feel the thing is not that it does not exist.Happiness takes you to feel and understand the intentions of love!Happiness is a feeling, must rely on themselves to create, to find a woman.

Happiness is not a unified standard, it is a kind of comfortable feeling, is the spiritual satisfaction, pleasure and joy, when you feel you are happy, you are happy.Happiness is not to, not sedulous pursuit, but on its own to strive for and create.Marriage life, true happiness should be two person carefully to create the highest realm of marriage, become each other's life, rather than the life of the people.
How can you let yourself in marriage life feel happy?I'm here and a female friend who talks about own marriage 30 years experience a few.
One, there is a detailed daily budget bill
As a woman, whether you is it right? Have independent economic capacity, as long as you don't have and husband to execute economy to AA, you be necessary daily balance as an exhaustive record.One can then understand the monthly payment record number, and secondly to let each other know money to where, in where, be aware of, this can avoid later because of money quarrel caused by.Two also can directly see the years and on one year of income difference, generally speaking, with the husband's successful career, home of the balance of payments will slowly change.To earn more, to describe the family economic value in the promotion, spending more, descriptions of family life level is improving.When you see these figures, you will have a very satisfying sense of happiness.Can you contrive ability exercise.A word is very important and realistic: men see the world as home, the woman home as the world.This requires man world junction to moneysense, while women to manage a household well.There are some lazy woman unwilling to do these chores, two eyes stared at students, neighbors, family and life changes, people buy a house that she wanted to buy a house, they have a car she wants to have a car, this woman gave her a golden hill also won't have happiness, because there are diamonds!

Two, always maintaining the husband's face, as much as possible to support her husband's decision
As a wife, you even could not husband when words, as long as there is the presence of foreigners, it is better to keep silence.Special attention is paid to do before the face of others, and comparison with those of her husband, while the husband is not.To the contrary, if the husband when outsiders tell you a face, put your ignorance to tell other people, what do you think?
Three, do not overdo sth.

A man doesn't like home has a nagging woman.On the daily life unpleasant to look at things, such as SOCKS SLIPPERS throw, not on the shelf, a blind eye, say one or two sentences is good, not endless endless.I met a woman, because her husband do not brush their teeth toothpaste squeezed from behind, but from intermediate squeeze, quarrel noisy to divorce, the woman who can give her happiness?Husband is a three years old child, he has his own ideas.If a man returns home to hear the endless chatter, the home time naturally as late as possible.The night alone woman, nature will not feel happy.
Four, learn to create humor, romantic life
Many married women, generally complain that life is no atmosphere, no love romance.In fact, you should take the initiative to marriage marriage fresh.For example, when eating, feed the husband a he likes to eat vegetables, husband on the way home, it will allow you to buy a bunch of flowers......
Five, quarrel to art
Many couples in the face of disagreement occurred when both contradiction, quarrel, if not a winner never give up.If the husband on at you, you look for a place to sit down, head bowed, natural hands flat on the lap, like a wrong children to receive education.At the sight of your husband, say two nature will not open the mouth.You see, what adults do not stop blaming a bow to admit children?If he is wrong, you will go around his neck, he will cherish and hold you in my arms to you talk, when you put your mind to tell him out, he not only won't fight, will praise you.In fact, between husband and wife is really nothing to face the problem, active to lower the head, make some concessions without any loss, instead of family and career, got be too strong to break the marriage, what is there against it.
Six, gentle, considerate, enthusiastic, implicitly
Your husband is a family man, every day after work as long as no entertainment first thought is to go back home.Why?Because the home has a gentle, considerate wife had done meal waiting for his return.Imagine, for men to work one day, tired, tired, tired, worry, back to the home can be completely relaxed, no pressure, do not listen to nagging, waiting for you is like a child to enjoy from the maternal love softly, softly whisper greetings, fragrant home dish, who don't want to go home?If the work is not very busy, husband and often come back very late, so you is it right? Where do not good enough?
In seven, to honor her
Their problem was also affects the original happy marriage.As the wife of you, always remember that lady is my mother, like their own mother honor her old life, care for the elderly, children and husband often go home to have a look.On holidays, for the elderly to buy some small gifts.Comity three points, it is possible to obtain seven points in return, people will take you and husband together cares about you, care for you.

Happiness is actually really simple, warm, harmonious, relaxed and happy tight, it is hidden in our daily life in every corner, as long as you want, you will find happiness in your side stand, never want to leave.

Teach you to be a happy woman
Someone says, marriage is the grave of love."Although there is a little exaggerate, but is not devoid of sense.However, there are many couples, married two grow with each passing day, feeling pleasant, have a love, love flower flower.
As you need to quietly Renqi, be familiar with the following ten points:
One, love is love, as long as love, not to compare, do not always say how good people's husband, don't give him nothing, you are the people closest to him, you are still so that he, as if not too should, for most men, appreciation and encouragement more than verbal abuse can have him the power struggle.Moreover, he also love to hurt him?He must respect his love, and life can not offend by rude remarks, language sometimes lives in a bloody wound.
Two, can not ask each other all day love or not love you.If he loves you, you don't have to ask; if he doesn't love you, he has done to your husband, so he can clearly recognize his wife?Unless he doesn't want this marriage.His love for you, heart to feel the taste out.Love is done, not to say.Old hanging on in the oral real love does not fall too feeble, marriage is a reality, life is realistic, romantic themes of love, not real life.Marriage is from the fuel to feel love.
Three, do not put faces to the other side, an angry woman is ugly.He made a lot of pressure, there is no obligation to go home to see your face to make you smile.Each character has faults, the details of life will be different from you, so that you are not satisfied, but how can he is perfect, in front of you, he will put down the mask, be yourself, to be a man.Tolerance is a man and deal with the right attitude for marriage.Tolerance and understanding of each other.
In four, the man to his dignity than anything important, no matter how much he loved you in private, how afraid of you.In front of people must give the other face, let him be fearless wife more afraid of his in the man of indomitable spirit, he should not make fun of Congress like friends make fun of him for fear of his wife.Unless he has enough strong backing and superior status, but, we are ordinary people.
Five, most likes bragging man, you do not burst his little trick, so they can get a little power, find a little confidence, continue to journey the following work.Virtual sense of achievement can let his mood brightened is not good?No one likes their own is.And his wife together, sex is a physical indulgence, the conversation is spiritual indulgence, if my wife to be happy, relaxed a little he knew about compliance is not very good?

Six, bones all love beauty, see the beauty will be one's pupils do not turn. Or back to salute, don't you think he doesn't love you, don't think his lustful love, see the beauty of man's instinct, and character.Moreover, the love of beauty.Don't you peeking through guy?
Seven, not to be too vain, don't be too utilitarian, material pursuit is endless and as the saying goes: a daughter Yi, lover is hard to find.True love is priceless, friendship is priceless.
Eight, why men love gentle woman, because their heart is very fragile, like the appearance of a strong, they need his wife's gentle, soft-spoken, light streaming honey love.To know you have Wen Ya such as appearance and temperament, are aspirated as LAN voice, there are full of silently conveyed tenderness eyes, they are very easy to change 100 steelmaking to soft velvet, Wen Ruian a book called "a knife" gentle, gentle, can kill a man, for men, it is a fatal temptation.
In nine, the family is forever the first, we should be responsible for the work, must have the occupation morals, to obtain the pleasure from the work, but don't be a slave to work.We work to happier and their families together, to enjoy life, enjoy life is very important.
Ten, lover's parents is their parent, feel for others, Aiya and house, old I old as well as old person, as long as the heart really feel that this is my own parents, psychological attachment to the old intimacy, old man back to feel this.Moreover, old people much like children, as long as the kids like to coax coax elderly happy.We also have old one day.

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